#kalamsheikh - "happy feet"
8:26 PM
-After an issue, if you don't change yourself in 48 hours...you aren't going to make any changes.
-The home should be the best place. A place of reflection and happiness.
-PM (SAW) was a romantic prophet who showed his feelings at home.
-Reflect about your relationship with your family or spouse. How many of will say you have some regrets? How about no regrets? You must acknowledge that you can always be a better person.
-The best test of your character is how you behave at home with your spouse and family. At home you must be your authentic self from your soul. You must be able to do this and she must be able to do this.
-When you go home have "happy feet". Don't go home tense and don't take outside problems into the house.
-Smile when you are home.
-The first 4 seconds when you see each other after time apart (example: after you get home from work)...if it is happy, then the rest of the day together will also be happy.
-She must want to make a happy home.
-We must connect with, love, cherish our families and celebrate them.
-Make the home a sanctuary.
-Accept, Affirm, Acknowledge, Attention, Affection, Allah... for every child.
-Make the kids empowered, confident, able to go out and able to do things for themselves.
-The way you were nutured as a child is how we will view the world. We see everything as a product of our own selves. Whatever your home was like when you were small...don't make it a vicious cycle, break that cycle and make it better, make it a loving, caring, gentle, sensitive, giving, virtuous cycle instead.
-If you must be be apart for some time, part calm, part with peace so you come back together with calm and peace.
-When you go to work leave with kisses and hugs and when you arrive home arrive with kisses and hugs.
-Today, go home and tell your parents, your spouse, your kids, your family that you love them. Do it.
-Iqra...read. We are ignorant, we don't even know how to defend our faith. This is what we need as an ummah. This will help us as an ummah and as family people.
-The crucible for you is...if you pass away and your family says amazing things about you...what a husband! what a wife! What a daddy or mommy!
-Never give up. Allah SWT tests those who He loves.
-The home should be the best place. A place of reflection and happiness.
-PM (SAW) was a romantic prophet who showed his feelings at home.
-Reflect about your relationship with your family or spouse. How many of will say you have some regrets? How about no regrets? You must acknowledge that you can always be a better person.
-The best test of your character is how you behave at home with your spouse and family. At home you must be your authentic self from your soul. You must be able to do this and she must be able to do this.
-When you go home have "happy feet". Don't go home tense and don't take outside problems into the house.
-Smile when you are home.
-The first 4 seconds when you see each other after time apart (example: after you get home from work)...if it is happy, then the rest of the day together will also be happy.
-She must want to make a happy home.
-We must connect with, love, cherish our families and celebrate them.
-Make the home a sanctuary.
-Accept, Affirm, Acknowledge, Attention, Affection, Allah... for every child.
-Make the kids empowered, confident, able to go out and able to do things for themselves.
-The way you were nutured as a child is how we will view the world. We see everything as a product of our own selves. Whatever your home was like when you were small...don't make it a vicious cycle, break that cycle and make it better, make it a loving, caring, gentle, sensitive, giving, virtuous cycle instead.
-If you must be be apart for some time, part calm, part with peace so you come back together with calm and peace.
-When you go to work leave with kisses and hugs and when you arrive home arrive with kisses and hugs.
-Today, go home and tell your parents, your spouse, your kids, your family that you love them. Do it.
-Iqra...read. We are ignorant, we don't even know how to defend our faith. This is what we need as an ummah. This will help us as an ummah and as family people.
-The crucible for you is...if you pass away and your family says amazing things about you...what a husband! what a wife! What a daddy or mommy!
-Never give up. Allah SWT tests those who He loves.
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