kalam sheikh 1

1:18 AM

assalam guys..

ok, take 2 hrs.. xD
haha..org take 5 kita take 120
cemane ni (?) haha..saturated enuf :))

hmmm..hmmm..hmmm..
haaaa, nak share pasal ni sebenarnya;
sheikh tak kasi post his pics, but this one posted by aq before majlis, so, i guess itsokay..
alhamdulillah, sangat lah bersyukur sebenarnya
diberi peluang bertemu dengan seorang ulama'
*mantan mufti Canada yang berasal dari Lubnan
kali pertama jumpa dan dengar dgn dekat
kata-kata hikmah dari seorang ilmuan
sejuk mata memandang, tenang hati mendengar..
alhamdulillah, sebab saya tahu, tak semua orang mendapat peluang sebegini,
dan sesungguhnya saya dlm golongan yang beruntung itu..
thank Allah :)

untuk bercerita sebiji macam yang sheikh cite,
im afraid i cant..
so here, maybe just as a self refreshment;

-main point : target of your life the whole..
  have it, do it, and just go thorough it
  once make it, just dont return back,
  as returning back, you wasted your time.

-the worst is the one who'd learn something, but didn't practice it,
 only then, goes the one who'd worship it(the bad)

-what your doing? what your benefit to others? 
  *Allah look for Quality, not Quantity (means, anything you do, do it with your fullhearted, not just tatatatak and       done)
  *as if you really know what you really want, every sacrifice you did is easy and seems beneficial,
    but if you dont know what you want, every sacrifice is a waste (you spend > other people take = no benefit to       you at all)

-if you cant lead/guide yourself to Allah, how can we lead others to Allah?

-we need fiqh of life, not fiqh of book (fiqh=understanding)

-if your reason for all your doing is money, you wasted, as Allah already determined your rezk before you born

-for the person who'd not listen to advise, let the life teach him/her in its way

-why always complaint others, see ourself first (our mistakes)

-make your duty, and give all to Allah.
 you should follow the desire of Allah, not Allah to follow you. Know who you are (a real servant of Allah,  inshaAllah)

lastly, dont run away from reality/put your desire on it.
if you believe Allah always want Good for you, why we want to worry?
face it. go trough the flow, believe in Him.
control your emotion and not let your emotion control you.

i wrote it somewhere, and just cp it here .. sbb (?) kemalasan..huuu

yang kat atas ni, for all, lelaki and perempuan..
boleh dikatakan, sesi rasmi lah kot..

then, solat maghrib berjemaah 
*ini awesome-perasaan yang tak dapat digambarkan
then makan-makan sikit..
usai makan-makan, santai-santai kat situ lagi..
dan sekali lagi, beruntunglah, sesape yang masih disitu..
alhamdulillah, sheikh ada amanat terakhir 
untuk anak-anak perempuannya only,
anak2 lelaki>sila beredar.haha
katanya, sekarang baru nak bagitau, 
sebab taknak anak-anak lelaki terkeliru pula
ok.peace ^_^v haha

in brief;
daughters, know this; the most important thing for you to take care of is your DIGNITY..the one that you will never get back once gone
itulah pembuka kata sheikh untuk sesi itu *mungkin xsebiji macam tu, tapi, lebih kurang
inshaAllah, i'll always keep it in my mind and heart,
never forget it ya, dearself!

and dear girls, nah, ada sedikit nasihat untuk kita-kita
nasihat sheikh, ada 7 perkara yang patut kita jaga,
inshaAllah, akan bahagia ~

1-be to your husband, humble..
   you'll find him the same to you
   (means, dont act as a master to him,
   as, the bosser you are, the bosser he will be)
2-take care about 2 things of him;
3             food
4             sleep
   (sebab lelaki, mereka susahh nak tolerate dgn dua benda tu
   sheikh said that, not me..so, mungkin betul la kan, sbb he himself pun lelaki kan..)
5-be careful to discover the secret between you and your husband to anyone else
   (so, keep it personal lagi better lah kan)
6-be careful about his wealth and his children
7 (not take care, he'll change it)
inshaAllah, kalau tak silap noted, camtulah sheikh susun 7 perkara tu..
macam more to bekalan masa depan la kot..:))

and here, sheikh punya motherinlaw punya nasihat pada isteri sheikh,
and sheikh overheard it;

1-man collect,
   woman > save & build (make benefit of her husband's effort)
2-dont listen to crazy friend!
itu je yang termampu untuk dikongsi
alot more, tapi yelah, pape yang not written black and white, 
nak share, takut salah ilmu pula

so, to take it or to leave it, its all up to us :)